i.
The pastor’s wife
She serves, shows up, smiles, and supports the work of ministry, while quietly wrestling through things most people never see.
For the pastor’s wife facing what she cannot easily say
Scripture gives clarity for the hidden places.
Bible Thinking Woman is a Scripture-rooted ministry for pastors’ wives navigating private pain, pressure, and confusion in marriage and ministry. Here, you will find biblical encouragement, careful discernment, and quiet support to become firmly planted in truth.
Get the Free Abigail GuideFree. Scripture-rooted. Sign up to access the guide.
For the private places no one sees
You are not too sensitive.
You are not imagining the heaviness.
What others see publicly may not tell the whole story.
Scripture gives clarity for what feels confusing.
A Word from Kesha
I know what hidden fear and silence can do to a soul.
A pastor’s wife in a healthy ministry marriage, writing to women who are quietly seeking biblical clarity.
I am Kesha Griffin, founder of Bible Thinking Woman. I am a pastor’s wife in a healthy, supportive ministry marriage, and I love Christ, His Word, His church, and the beauty of marriage as God designed it.
But before I became a pastor’s wife, I was a child in a home where fear, violence, and silence shaped daily life. At seventeen, I stood in a courtroom and told the truth on the record. A conviction followed. But the journey there was much longer than that sentence makes it sound.
That is why I have a particular tenderness for women who are trying to honor the Lord while quietly sorting through private pain, pressure, and questions they may not feel free to say out loud.
Bible Thinking Woman exists to place Scripture in your hands, strengthen your discernment, and remind you that Christ sees what others may miss.
A free Scripture-rooted resource
The Abigail
Discernment
Guide
Discernment
Guide
Bible Thinking Woman
Begin Here
A private, biblical guide for the pastor’s wife seeking clarity.
The Abigail Guide was created for the pastor’s wife who is quietly wrestling through private questions in marriage and ministry. It offers Scripture-rooted discernment from 1 Samuel 25, helping you think biblically, pray honestly, and see your situation with greater clarity before the Lord.
It is free. It is discreetly presented. It has already been downloaded by pastors’ wives across eighteen states and several countries.
If you use a shared device or email account, consider your privacy before downloading.
Who this is for
For the woman living a public life while sorting through private questions.
ii.
The ministry leader’s wife
She knows the pressure of public faithfulness while privately wondering what faithfulness requires of her before God.
iii.
The woman seeking clarity
She has prayed, waited, tried harder, and wondered whether Scripture speaks to what she is experiencing. It does.
Our Foundation
“For he will be like a tree planted by the water, that extends its roots by a stream.”
Jeremiah 17:7–8
Bible Thinking Woman is rooted in the promise of Jeremiah 17:7–8, where the one who trusts in the Lord is compared to a tree planted by the water, extending its roots by the stream, not fearing when heat comes, and not ceasing to bear fruit.
This is the heart of our ministry: helping pastors’ wives become firmly planted in Christ and rooted in Scripture, even when marriage, ministry, and private pain feel confusing, heavy, or hidden.
We believe God’s Word is sufficient and authoritative for every situation His daughters face. Scripture gives wisdom, comfort, correction, courage, and hope for the places no one else may see.
Rooted in Scripture. Firmly planted in Christ. Strengthened to walk wisely.
About Kesha Griffin
A pastor’s wife who refuses to look away.
Kesha Griffin is the founder of Bible Thinking Woman. She has been a pastor’s wife for fifteen years and serves alongside her husband in a healthy, supportive ministry marriage.
Before that, she was a child in a home where fear, violence, and silence shaped daily life. At seventeen, she testified publicly against the abuser. A conviction resulted. That experience, combined with years inside ministry life, gives her particular tenderness for the woman whose private pain is hidden behind a public life.
This ministry is the work of putting Scripture in the hands of women and reminding them that Christ, His Word, His Spirit, and faithful saints are not out of reach.
— Kesha
A quiet note about safety
If you are in immediate danger, seek emergency help. Bible Thinking Woman offers biblical encouragement and discernment, but does not replace emergency services, professional safety planning, legal counsel, or trusted in-person support. Visiting websites or downloading files can leave traces on shared devices.
You came here for clarity. Begin with the Guide.
Free. Scripture-rooted. Available after signup.
Get the Free Abigail Guide